{"id":328,"date":"2021-12-19T09:04:19","date_gmt":"2021-12-19T09:04:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/?p=328"},"modified":"2021-12-19T09:04:21","modified_gmt":"2021-12-19T09:04:21","slug":"on-being-30","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/2021\/12\/19\/on-being-30\/","title":{"rendered":"On being 30&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I turned 30 some days ago! As excited as I was to hit this milestone (I\u2019ve been waiting for it for some time), I feel it comes with some kind of responsibility. I don\u2019t exactly know why.. maybe because thirty feels like I\u2019m more adult than I was in my twenties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>At some point in my life, I had been made to feel so young to be a mom by those around me. They always wondered how I became a mom at 18 and constantly made it a point that I am yet to mature. They had it that motherhood at thirty, for instance, is so much different than at eighteen or even the early twenties; you get to see things differently or even become somewhat more responsible and mature. That is what they said, creating a longing in me to experience life (as well as motherhood) at 30.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Since I was in high school, I\u2019ve always looked at thirty as a big \u2018milestone\u2019. I thought of it as a special checkpoint at which I should have accomplished major things in my life, mainly academic or career-related achievements. Little did I know then that my biggest accomplishment would be being a mother. It\u2019s truly amazing how life unfolds for each one of us and how utterly different the scenario we had created in our minds is from the reality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing up, in general, is a scary concept for me and it becomes more so the more I grow up. However, it also means that Allah is giving us a golden chance every extra day we spend on this Earth. I am ever so grateful to Allah for blessing me with 30 years on this Earth, in spite of my shortcomings. I\u2019m looking forward to forty as well inshaAllah (God Willing).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They say \u201cAge is just a number\u201d and that one may feel young at heart (or wild at heart) regardless of one\u2019s true age. I believe thirty best describes me as I\u2019ve come a long way in this journey called Life \u2013 by the Grace of Allah \u2013 and can\u2019t be more thankful for that.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I turned 30 some days ago! As excited as I was to hit this milestone (I\u2019ve been waiting for it for some time), I feel it comes with some kind of responsibility. I don\u2019t exactly know why.. maybe because thirty feels like I\u2019m more adult than I was in my twenties. At some point in<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":329,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-328","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-random-thoughts"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/12\/istockphoto-483476524-612x612-1.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=328"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":330,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/328\/revisions\/330"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/329"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=328"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=328"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/khadiga.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=328"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}